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	<title>Comments on: How to Treat Your Introvert</title>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
		<link>http://www.butteredham.com/blog/2009/09/15/how-to-treat-your-introvert/comment-page-1/#comment-2246</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 15:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of my favorite introvert moments was when an extreme extrovert said to me, &quot;You know, quiet people like you make me nervous.&quot;  I just smiled at him and said, &quot;Yeah, that&#039;s why we do it.&quot;

I know what you mean about taking your time with your writing.  I&#039;ve seen blogging experts talk about how they make sure to leave comments on at least ten other blogs each day, to drive traffic back to their own blog, where they&#039;re blogging at least daily, sometimes several times a day.  A typical blog post takes me an hour or two, and a short comment like this takes 15 minutes, so that would be a full-time job pretty quickly for me.  Even as a full-time job, there&#039;s no way I could churn out the number of posts some bloggers do; there aren&#039;t enough hours in the day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite introvert moments was when an extreme extrovert said to me, &#8220;You know, quiet people like you make me nervous.&#8221;  I just smiled at him and said, &#8220;Yeah, that&#8217;s why we do it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I know what you mean about taking your time with your writing.  I&#8217;ve seen blogging experts talk about how they make sure to leave comments on at least ten other blogs each day, to drive traffic back to their own blog, where they&#8217;re blogging at least daily, sometimes several times a day.  A typical blog post takes me an hour or two, and a short comment like this takes 15 minutes, so that would be a full-time job pretty quickly for me.  Even as a full-time job, there&#8217;s no way I could churn out the number of posts some bloggers do; there aren&#8217;t enough hours in the day.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Baugher</title>
		<link>http://www.butteredham.com/blog/2009/09/15/how-to-treat-your-introvert/comment-page-1/#comment-2245</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason Baugher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Confucious said: &quot;An exemplary person should be slow to speak yet quick to act.&quot;

The Bible says: &quot;Swift To Hear, Slow To Speak, And Slow To Wrath.&quot;
James 1:19

Plato said: &quot;Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.&quot;

I&#039;ve often noticed that extroverts tend to get nervous around introverts.  They don&#039;t understand the silence and they feel like they have to find the cause.  Hence the questions: &quot;Are you okay?&quot;  &quot;Why aren&#039;t you having any fun?&quot; &quot;Are you mad at me?&quot;

I notice a lot of quick, one-line comments on blogs.  I think I spent 20 minutes on this one, finding the quotes, re-writing my thoughts, correcting punctuation...  As an introvert, I want to be sure that my thoughts, when they ARE shared with others, are clear and understandable.  Even now, as I center my mouse cursor on &quot;Add your Comment&quot;, I struggle with myself as to whether what I have written is both worth the effort it took for me to write it, and also worth the effort you&#039;ll spend to read it.

Ah well.  Click!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confucious said: &#8220;An exemplary person should be slow to speak yet quick to act.&#8221;</p>
<p>The Bible says: &#8220;Swift To Hear, Slow To Speak, And Slow To Wrath.&#8221;<br />
James 1:19</p>
<p>Plato said: &#8220;Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve often noticed that extroverts tend to get nervous around introverts.  They don&#8217;t understand the silence and they feel like they have to find the cause.  Hence the questions: &#8220;Are you okay?&#8221;  &#8220;Why aren&#8217;t you having any fun?&#8221; &#8220;Are you mad at me?&#8221;</p>
<p>I notice a lot of quick, one-line comments on blogs.  I think I spent 20 minutes on this one, finding the quotes, re-writing my thoughts, correcting punctuation&#8230;  As an introvert, I want to be sure that my thoughts, when they ARE shared with others, are clear and understandable.  Even now, as I center my mouse cursor on &#8220;Add your Comment&#8221;, I struggle with myself as to whether what I have written is both worth the effort it took for me to write it, and also worth the effort you&#8217;ll spend to read it.</p>
<p>Ah well.  Click!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 00:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;When an introvert isn’t talking, it doesn’t mean he’s mad about something or doesn’t like you.  An introvert enjoys companionable silence.&lt;/i&gt;

So true, I&#039;d probably be rich also.  

With the advent of MP3 players and in-ear headphones now it&#039;s even easier to &#039;detach&#039; at work -- sometimes I&#039;ll have them in with no music playing, using them just to dull the roar that seems to develop during the course of the day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>When an introvert isn’t talking, it doesn’t mean he’s mad about something or doesn’t like you.  An introvert enjoys companionable silence.</i></p>
<p>So true, I&#8217;d probably be rich also.  </p>
<p>With the advent of MP3 players and in-ear headphones now it&#8217;s even easier to &#8216;detach&#8217; at work &#8212; sometimes I&#8217;ll have them in with no music playing, using them just to dull the roar that seems to develop during the course of the day.</p>
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